Sunday, July 27, 2008

WHAT MATTERS MOST IN LIFE?

We all have different priorities in life. Some concentrate more in terms of money, some in their spiritual life while other's in their personal life. I read a verse in the bible in 2John:6 Love means living the way God commands us to live. As you have heard from the beginning, His command is this: Live a life of love."
God Himself is love. For me, love is laying down your life to someone like what Jesus Christ did for us. He died for our sins and ssacrife His life fr us even sinners. That's LOVE.
In our life,learn to love people above else..not money, not fame but show real, genuine love to other people, have compassion with them.
REASONS WHY LOVE MUST BE PRIORTY IN OUR LIFE:
  • Life without love is worthless
  • Love will last forever
  • We will be evaluated on our love

As i observed in some relationshiops, some couple break up because of busyness. They do't have time for each other because they're striving hard to earn income for their future. The relationship are not being taken care of..There is "coldness"in the relationship that's why some couple are breaking apart. It is one of the enemy of any relationship..We become so preoccupied in making a living that we forgot to show LOVE to your partner. These should not be our main goal..I'm not saying to be that we should be jobless so that all our time is in our partner..learn to budget the time..let us not to be too focus in one area..still learn to love..LIFE MINUS LOVE EQUALS TO ZERO.

There is a verse in the bible"THOSE THREE THINGS CONTINUE FOREVER;FAITH, HOPE AND LOVE. AND THE GREATEST OF THOSE IS LOVE"

The greatest thing you can give to someone is your TIME. We say TIME IS GOLD. We can't earn time, we can't turn back time..every second pass we can't turned it back..every second in our life is precious...The best expression of love is TIME..The essense of love is not what we think or do with others. It is how much time you give yourslf to them...They need is YOU.Your time to let them feel your presence..Whenever you give your time to someone, you are making a sacrifice , and sacrifice is one of the essence of love.

Love is more in thingking other's people happiness, sacrifice and loyalty..It is not mainly in providing their needs. Provide them with your love, time and YOURSELF. They need is YOU not your money!The time is really precious.Please do take care of it.

THE BEST USE OF LIFE IS LOVE. THE BEST EXPRESSION OF LOVE IS TIME. THE BEST TIME TO LOVE IS NOW!!!

Guys, life is all about love. Like Christ did for us. Give love now, not tomorrow, not next time.GOD BLESS

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

BUSINESS RELATIONS!!

The key to success in the business world is the relationship among its partners, employess and customers. It's nice sometimes give greeting cards to them, let them feel the're appreciated, and wish all the success in the business.
Research shows it's not enough that you have good products and business practices, but strong relationship is also needed in this competitive marketplace. One criteria of that is RESPECT. Respecting each other's opinion is important. Hearing the interest of your partners or your employees. Know the demand of the customers. it is also related to ACCEPTANCE. Identify the areas of difference. People all have different opinions, perspective regarding in business. When in "opinion", many people see things in terms of "right" and "wrong". No one like to adjust or compromise. This will makes the business somehow stumble. People need to understand its fine to have different views. Learn to understand and compromise to each other.
Some tips for business success relationships:
  • having respect leads to acceptance
  • acceptance creates trust environment
  • willingness to open new opportunities, strategies, ideas products, market

The common diiferences of people:

  • Communication style- we have differnet stle how to bring the message to other people. Some people may perceived it as negatively.
  • Non verbal communication- do not take it for granted those non verbal words. Be sensitive also to those body language and tone
  • Learning styles- people have different style how to gain knowledge. Some are from books, some from apllications.
  • Boundaries- people have limits on the behavior around you. be aware of the boundaries of other people so that you could approach them respectgully.
  • Self- this is the most building block in relationship. Don't be greedy. learn to think other people around you. dont of oneself too much.
  • Company culture- some employees come from different companies. Some companies are liberated, strict or conservative. Learn to know first the culture of the company and adjust to it to avoid conflict.
  • Unity- n the busineess, teamwork is a must. employees need to have sense of coperation to enable the comapny to be successful.

In every business relationships, learn to adjust and compromise to one another to avoid conflicts in the future. Dont focus only in products, relationship among partners and employees should be considered.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

THE RELATIONSHIP!!

In a releationship, there should be GIVE AND TAKE.Communication is a must in every relationship. In our parents or frens or boyfriend/girlfren, spouses. Interaction is important so that we could understnad them more and develop closer relationship. having a relationship is a continous process and it is LIFETIME!!According to psychologist Steve Stephens, PHD, author of LOST IN TRANSLATIONS, "They're so subtle that often they don't create conflict in the moment, but when they happen, consistently, they can make partners fee less connected".
It is important for the couple to recognize the need of communication. Often couple just HEAR their partner talking but not really LISTENING. There is big differnece between these two words.
HEARING is merely acccepting what your partner talking without keeping it or understanding it. LISTENING is when we really abosrbed the message of a giver, we keep it in our hearts and understand it. If you observed, the way the coples speak to each other are different from talking with their friends. Because they're so used to be together, they thought they really know each other and they have the same entity. The figured out its not really necessary to talk or ask what their partners wanted. So there will be feelings of ignoring.
It is easily fixed with this problem. Just be deliberate when you're talking to your partner. Listen carefully what your partner is saying, be sensitive enough for each other;s feelings.
Sometimes when we want to talk with our partner, the timing is not good. Most of the guys are so focused when thye're doing something like watching their favorite NBA games, they're really distracted. You can't talked to them. According to Stephens."Men cant' mentally multi task" On the other side, men usually brings serious topic when the girsl are so busy such as getting ready to work or budgetting the finance in the house... Actuallly men are intended to do that because men dont want deep conversation. So its better when the girl is preoccupied with something else so the conversation will not be really deep and serious.
It's better to ask to your partner if it is right time to talked when you're both ready. When we picked the wrong timing, the person being bothered becomes annoyed and the person initiating the conversation will feel dismissed.
Most of the women love to tell stories to their boyfriends. Every detailed of like what happened to their outing and lots more. At first , the guy is interested but later on he will get tired of listening. Stephens said" Guys have a three minutes window where they can listen closely, but when your description goes on longer than that, you've lost him" And the girl will get mad to the guy.
There is way how to prevent this conflict. Im not saying GIRLS DONT TALK!! Just be senstive to the guys, Invoved them in the story. Like ask them questions too so that they could feel the're involved in that conversation.
Another thing is about HONESTY. Honesty is important in relationship so that it could grow and TRUST. Learn to build trust with each other . For me relationship should have these following:
  • TRUST/HONESTY
  • RESPECT
  • ACCEPTANCE
  • LOYALTY
  • LOVE

I hope we all could find our real partner. It's not okay if its not ideal but the most important thing is it is REAL.

Monday, July 7, 2008

DEL MONTE REVEALS 10,000 TOXIC PESTICIDE LOADED to MV PRINCESS--PHILIPPINE SEA | The News is NowPublic.com

DEL MONTE REVEALS 10,000 TOXIC PESTICIDE LOADED to MV PRINCESS--PHILIPPINE SEA The News is NowPublic.com

DEL MONTE REVEALS 10,000 TOXIC PESTICIDE LOADED to MV PRINCESS--PHILIPPINE SEA | The News is NowPublic.com

DEL MONTE REVEALS 10,000 TOXIC PESTICIDE LOADED to MV PRINCESS--PHILIPPINE SEA The News is NowPublic.com

MV Princess of the Stars Sank in the Philippines - Truveo Video Search

MV Princess of the Stars Sank in the Philippines - Truveo Video Search

MV Princess of the Stars Sank in the Philippines - Truveo Video Search

MV Princess of the Stars Sank in the Philippines - Truveo Video Search

TRAGEDY OF MV PRINCESS!!

Another tragedy again happened in our country..its the sunking ship of MV Princess in the waters of Romblon. It is approximately has 700passengers and crews in that ship. There was a great typhoon but the ship still continue to sailed. The said ferry can hold 2000people flipped over a mile off the shore of Sibuyan Island.
After that incident, Del Monte Co. warned the Philippines Government that the vessel was carrying a 10,000 kilos (10tons) toxic pesticide for pineapple in Mindanao plantation. Vice President Nole De Castro has ordered suspension and big possibility of its license revocation due to malpractice by carrying a toxic in a vesssel. The divers who dived into the vessel was given immediate medical check up due to toxic.
According to health secretary Franciso Duque: "ENDOSULFAN IS A RESTRICTED PESTICIDE FOR USE IN PINEAPPLE PLANTATION. AT TOXIC LEVELS, IT CAN CAUSE DEATH OR AFFECT CENTRAL NERVOUS SYSTEM MANIFESTING AS HEADACHES, DIZZINESS, NAUSEA, TREMORS. EXPERTS SAID THERE IS NO ANTIDOTE FOR THIS POISON YET THERE IS A TREAMENT. VICTIMES MUST UNDERGO INDUCED VOMITING TO EXPEL THE CHEMICAL FROM THEIR BODIES"
Fortunately, the divers who took medical check up showed no signs of infection of toxic.

Friday, July 4, 2008

INVESTING BONE CRYPT IN MEMEORIAL PARK!!

I was checking the website of pinoymoney.com and i got curious about investing a bone crypt in memorial park..I heard from some people its a good investment since many people are dying everyday..
Lots of people prefer cremation due to practical reasons, such as you could save more in cremation than to buy a bone crypt..But some devoted Catholics still go to traditional ways of burial.In the forum of of this site, some people comment that this is good investment because they can get double money after a year when they invest into it. Some people say for example they bought a plot in Heritage for about 2ooK, and after a year or so, it already cost 330K.
It is just one example people invest their money..we still could find other things that we could invest on..if you're interested,i could help you search into that..God bless!!

Thursday, July 3, 2008

budgetting money!!!!

After graduation, students are so excited about what jobs they will apply?what career they would choose?if they could achieve thier dreams right??we're so excited about the future ahead of us..full of dreams..hopes..
Of course, we're all so excited in our future work how much we will be earned? how much money we will be save?At first, we will have difficulty in handling our finance because we feel we neeed everything..our needs and wants got mixed up..Many of us believe that if we could have everything we want, we will be very happpy and satisfied..
On an early age we should laready know how to handle our finance. dont let your pockets be empty handed!!
  • set an emergency fund
  • stay out of debt
  • open an individual retirement account
  • invest some stocks or bonds to help you grow the money over time

Guys, save some money more!!!