Scared of Dissapointment??

Most of us HATE dissapointment...so tendency we don't expect something good will happen or put our hope to somebody. We just simply don't want to trust someone because we fear that SOMEONE will dissapoint us someday. We often expect somebody will love us but at the end you realize that it's really impossible that SOMEONE will love you back. You will really feel DISSAPOINTED! It's like you don't want to expect anymore that someone will love you. People like to set goals because it is their guide in everyday lives. Goals is something you really strive for, devote your time into , put all your heart and effort into that. When you achieve that goal, naturally you feel awesome!! Unfortunately, not all our golas can be achieve.. Sometimes things don't go as you plan..Even when you put all your energy, time into that goal, it falls apart. That's the time when you feel DISSAPOINTMENT!
You feel all your effort has been wasted. Dissapointment is very hard to endure. For some people, it's their failure because they didn't achieve their goals or simply they don't get what they want. It's natural to feel bad but don't lose all your hopes because of some dissapointments in life.
ATTITUDES TOWARD DISSAPOINTMENTS:

• accept the failure there is always a reason for a failure, but sometimes people don't accept that reason or explanation why failure happens. Sometimes, God allow failures to happen because HE has a better purpose for you.
• learn from failures dissapointments can build character such as patience and perseverance. it can teach you to win and lose with GRACE.
• build friendships friends can be your shoulder when you feel frustated or dissapointed. they can help you to endure your problems and support you.
• have a deeper relationship with God Men really can dissapoint us but GOD won't. God will never desert us whatever happens. Everything could turn us down but we could always rely on God no matter what happens.
• adjust the expectations be realistic in your expectaion. Such as expecting too much such to become a millionaire or to become a superstar someday. It's fine to have a dreams but sometimes it won't come true. It depends in your abilities and efforts. Kust be balance in your life.

In one's life, it's normal that we could feel dissapointment. Don't be afraid of that. Don't afraid to trust someone again. just always prepared your heart whatever happens. Trust God that whatever happening in your life, there is a purpose. And God may teaching you something why failures happens in your lives. When you feel dissapointed, count your blessings. Im sure your blessing is greater than your dissapointments. The fact that we're alive is already a blessing. We have 5 senses God given us already a tremendous blessing because we could appreciate all His creations. Count your blessings and you won't get dissapointed. God bless you all!!!